When Neo brings you a gift with a confident smile, you know that xey spent a considerable amount of xeir time picking the perfect thing. You appreciate it as much as the gift itself.
You find Neo carefully inspecting every inch of xeir nest for bugs, failing to notice your presence.
You see Neo carefully organizing xeir belongings, paying little attention to anything else. Xey don't notice you until you are close enough to press your nose into xeir shoulder to get xeir attention.