You see Merzost carefully organising their belongings, paying little attention to anything else. They don't notice you until you are close enough to press your nose into their shoulder to get their attention.
You find Merzost carefully inspecting every inch of their nest for bugs, failing to notice your presence.
When Merzost brings you a gift with a confident smile, you know that they spent a considerable amount of their time picking the perfect thing. You appreciate it as much as the gift itself.