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Posted 2024-06-10 16:24:38
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Daisy #122200 |
Posted 2024-06-10 16:25:24
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Daisy #122200 |
Posted 2024-06-10 16:25:35
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Daisy #122200 |
Posted 2024-06-10 16:26:23
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Daisy #122200 |
Posted 2024-06-10 16:41:55 (edited)
thanks for listening |
Natsume #72212 |
Posted 2024-06-13 13:16:14
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Daisy #122200 |
Posted 2024-06-14 17:53:10
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Daisy #122200 |
Posted 2024-07-17 15:36:48
I'm kind of in an awkward position rn but I put myself into it and I hope to do what I can to help this couple, who are friends of mine, but one of them is very mentally ill and won't seek help and her partner is very patient and understanding but she's become obsessed with him and reacts very negatively if he doesn't want to cuddle. His affection makes her feel better IN THE MOMENT but she behaves as if she's dying and needs him to be there. She doesn't do anything anymore and she refuses therapy and uses manipulative language to make him feel guilty and like a bad partner. They're my friends so I'll try to help, at least for the guy because he's at a loss and is under a lot of pressure, plus he has to work and take over the household chores now... I don't know what happened, she started acting strange a few months ago and didn't talk to me anymore so I thought she ghosted me, but now I'm learning it's A Whole Situation. And beyond all this, I'm just heartbroken over the two of them. He loves her and I can tell from the texts he shared with me. He's so patient and understanding but he has to be careful with his words because she finds a way to twist everything. I never knew she could be like that, she was always so sweet, but I guess I don't know her that well. I hope I didn't just make things worse by offering to help. I don't even know if I can, but I know that I do care and this shit really worries me. The people who need the most help are the ones that refuse it. I know about that first-hand. |
☨𝖋𝖔𝖒𝖔𝖗𝖎𝖆𝖓☨ #51433 |
Posted 1 day ago (edited)
if my wording of this violates COC please don't ban me, i will absolutely delete this comment or mods you can absolutely delete it yourself because i totally understand. but i'm sharing my grief over this event and my fear of the future moreso than the topic itself so hopefully that is okay, but if not i 100% understand and will gladly and respectfully delete this i just know that this site holds a lot of incredibly progressive, diverse, genuine people and i am sharing my own feelings toward this in hopes that if there is anyone on here who is feeling similarly, they will know that at least one other person is in solidarity with them and their feelings i really love this community, i feel safe in this community despite my little engagement in it; i see the good in this community every single day. these are people who hold empathy and operate out of altruism as i have seen firsthand, and they are likely feeling despondent, so i hope i'm not overstepping here but again, please don't ban me- just delete my comment and i will never speak on this again because i understand completely! i just feel very low in spirits and if there is anyone else who is too, i'm here with you and my dm's are open. thank you for being good people who instill hope in me despite the external world doing everything possible to beat us down, i am grateful for the goodness that persists in you |
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